LEARN THE GAME – 8 Online Tests for Kinky Self-Discovery
Sexuality is a game for which you can make your own rules. There is much to win, and much to lose – the better you know yourself, the better you play. Learn more about yourself through my favorite Personality Tests about Fetish, BDSM, Relationships & Intimacy.
Have fun – and feel free to share your results!
Marie
Founder of Moonlight Society
Personality & Dynamics
Personality shapes how we experience closeness, communicate, and respond to tension, control or surrender. These tests offer a playful look at those dynamics.
16Personalities (MBTI)
A well-known personality test that highlights how you think, feel and make decisions – also interesting in relational and intimate contexts!
Big Five Personality Test
Based on five core traits such as openness and emotional stability, this test gives insight into how you approach new experiences and intimacy.
Enneagram Test
Rather than focusing on behavior, the Enneagram looks at motivation. It can offer clues as to why certain roles or dynamics appeal to you.
Kink, BDSM & Fetishes
Kinks are personal, layered and often defy simple explanation. These tests sit somewhere between fantasy, playfulness and recognition – sometimes direct, sometimes tongue-in-cheek.
BDSM Test
A classic test that highlights dominant, submissive or switch tendencies and provides an overview of potential interests. The results rank different kinks, providing insight into your BDSM profile and interests. You can also directly compare results and measure compatibility with others.
The Kink Test
Wide-ranging and curious, this test covers a broad spectrum of preferences and fantasies – from subtle to explicit.
Sexuality & Compatibility
Desire isn’t just about fantasy; it’s also shaped by communication, closeness and interaction. These tests focus on those aspects.
Mojo Upgrade
A playful quiz you can take alone or together to explore shared interests, curiosity and overlaps.
Kinsey Scale Test
A simple but often surprisingly honest way to look at sexual orientation on a spectrum.
Love Languages Quiz
While not strictly sexual, the Love Languages Quiz helps you to understand how you give and receive affection – and why certain gestures matter more to you than others.
Kinkier than you thought?
If you found yourself surprised by some of your results or realised that you have some kinky desires that you would like to explore and investigate further, I encourage you to reach out to me. I founded Moonlight Society to create a space where (new and seasoned) kinksters, hedonists, and free spirits can discover their sexuality with joy and curiosity instead of shame or judgment. The Moonlight Society Escorts and I would love to accompany you on your journey of kinky self-discovery 🤍
I’m looking forward to hearing from you!
Marie
Founder of Moonlight Society
